I have been curious to be with another women for many years, I was emberrassed about it at first but after joining POF... I would feel like I was cheating on him if he wasn't included... Find an experienced bi or lesbian woman and invite her into your bedroom. A lot of bi and lesbian women don't want to be the object of a married woman's curiosity.

I'm looking for advice on how to meet someone or tips on how to break the ice..the big one ... It's a classic way that bi and lesbian women feel they've been used.

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if you're honest about what you're looking for, you're bound to find opportunity to explore it..

(ah damn, I don't think I put that in my profile) but he wanted to please me, so he went along with it. If your husband is supportive, you can usually spot someone in a club.

It will be up to you to talk to her from the start and smile alot, maybe see how she reacts to a touch on the leg. It's not easy to find someone, it can be scary for the woman.

When I was married, my husband and I sought out a steady female partner.

We had one woman a few times, but you really have to be careful. It wasn't HIS wish, he knows that I like to have sex with women too.You may have meant that you live is a small community or have really homophobic family or friends that you don't want to know.If thats the case you may have to play away games and not use the home turf so to speak.I guess somebody might like it if they're looking for some kind of no-strings thing, but I don't happen to know anybody like that.I guess my point is that meeting somebody might turn out to be kind of hard.Hopefully you will all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing...